KKP KKP TVM

Let me abbreviate my blog heading "KKP KKP TVM" - கண்ணால் காண்பதும் பொய், காதால் கேட்பதும் பொய், தீர விசாரிப்பதே மெய்! This is such a lovely proverb that our ancestors have come up with and only during the course of life you are able to relate to the true meaning to this proverb. I am going to come up with two examples to illustrate this proverb and examples are taken from real life incidents with little bit of fictional elements but the core content is ORIGINAL. 

Example One - Anti-social elements role in Politics

    Assume DMK is holding a mega protest against the ruling BJP government citing the hike of prices for Petrol, Diesel, LPG Gas etc., Not all protests are bad in fact I would recommend protesting for your basic rights. Protests is planned in all major districts and DMK's district administrators plan the protest. They come up with a plan where to protest, timing of the protest, agenda for the meetings, any traffic diversions needed, permission from local bodies like consent from collector office, help from Police, Traffic police etc., Obviously DMK may protest against BJP since BJP is the government coming up with the new prices. Now ADMK is the principal opponent party of DMK in the state and alliances of ADMK may also be against the ruling DMK since they come under ADMK. The so called anti social elements who may neither belong to ADMK, ADMK alliances, BJP may form a group and disrupt the protest thereby causing damage of public property and injury to public. Chaotic atmosphere may prevail and innocent public become victims to these protests and DMK may complain it was BJP/ADMK who disrupted the peaceful protests whereas BJP/ADMK may complain DMK has to take the blame as a ruling party for the law and order mess in the state. But the ugly secret is there could be some inside forces within DMK who could initiate the protests or it could be a ploy from a neighboring state who wanted to tarnish the image of the ruling party for political mileage. It could even be people outside the scope of politics who may sponsor the whole protests thereby quenching the thirst of taking revenge due to some personal feud in the past. You never know who is the culprit unless there is a full time investigation of the whole matter. Meanwhile SUN News /JAYA News/ NDTV come up with FLASH NEWS blaming one another ....This is where proverb comes into picture. 

Example Two - Bride & Groom match making

Match making is a big challenging task for parents in current generation. There are N number of factors to be accounted before a final decision can be made. Now consider there is a marriage proposal for a boy and a girl ......It is natural for both the sides to enquire about the bride and the groom respectively .....Let me summarize some of the findings 

(a) Girl's side looks into Boy's biodata in Social media and finds Boy has lot of girl friends 

(b) Boy's side look into Girl's biodata in Social media and finds Girl is bold as far as dressing sense

(c) Girl's side upon enquiring Boy's parents comes to know that they have lots of liabilities 

(d) Boy's side upon enquiring Girl's parents comes to know that they are against couple settling abroad

Now if you look into the facts for each of these:

(a) Girl's side looks into Boy's biodata in Social media and finds Boy has lot of girl friends  - Nowadays every IT company engages its employees on team bonding and on one such occasion it so happened that boy happened to be trapped on a particular fun game and team took a group pic with the boy surrounded by all girls ...since one of his friends tagged that pic this caught attention of the girl's side

(b) Boy's side look into Girl's biodata in Social media and finds Girl is bold as far as dressing sense - Though we talk about Biotechnology on one side there is still mega serials running successfully in TV ....Girl just happened to visit Miami,FL on a vacation and you cannot expect girl to wear Nalli Samudrika Silk saree in Miami beach ....Unfortunately the mega serial aunty mistook the sleaveless shirt and shorts as 'Bold' ...BTW India is the only country where you can gauge boldness of a person through your attire

(c) Girl's side upon enquiring Boy's parents comes to know that they have lots of liabilities - One thing I realized is though many people have funds to purchase an asset they still finance and prefer loan payments ....Unfortunately one loan assignment is tongue twisted as liabilities since the intermediate whom people made enquiry passed what he heard ...just like how passing the secret game goes on info is completely fabricated ...

(d) Boy's side upon enquiring Girl's parents comes to know that they are against couple settling abroad - Sometimes when people have one daughter they prefer daughter to be geographically closer and this may just be a preference. Once again the so called intermediates fabricate the info and portray in such a way as if girl's parents are completely against couple settling abroad. 

As you can see information is Fabricated/twisted/misinterpreted and just shows importance of the proverb. Some Naysayers deliberately want to pull some families down hence kind of politely spread false information something similar to poking needle into a Banana. It is becoming even more important to make your enquiries right since what we see and what we hear may no longer hold true. 

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