I wanted to give myself enough time before I pen this blog since I do not want to be a sentimental fool. When someone is angry you can revert back the emotion in few days but when someone is hurt I think it takes sometime to get out of it. Something kept on haunting me about a recent incident and definitely wanted to share my thoughts.
When you are into social life it is very hard to come out of it completely, the only thing you can do is to cautiously reduce your exposure. Politics among any organizations - be it Profit or Non-profit is inevitable since that is the way the overall design is made. With politics comes groupism and with groupism comes opinions. It is so funny how one groups thinks exactly differs from other group. Each group defends what they say is correct and then comes strategies which are drivers to execute goals for each group. The strategies is looked as politics for an outsider. I used to make fun of leading political parties in Tamil Nadu but now after witnessing whole lot of politics very closely I doubt I will make fun of any political party in future. Based on my personal interest and passion I chose a particular role but unfortunately I had to apply at the last minute due to my personal circumstances; This was looked as political move and frankly I don't expect every single person to know what was going on but the least I expected was at least people who knew me personally should understand and see this as a genuine application. Few people had to say something which was definitely hurting but I have nothing to prove to them.
People have Master's degree, live in US with sophisticated background but when it comes to behavior they are still childish. People sponsor tons and tons of money to temple, volunteer for hours in Temples but see only part of their prayers are answered and if they analyze deeply they will know one of the reason is they have been offering lot of hurt feelings to their near and dear ones with or without conscience. All of us cannot be a Mahatma Gandhi or Mother Teresa since manufacturing of those people have stopped long back. We are living in a rat race environment where people are waiting to push you down, kind and good human beings are considered as incapable ones. If you consider someone as your friend do try to understand him before joining everyone and raising slogans against him..end of the day understanding is what all matters.
When you are into social life it is very hard to come out of it completely, the only thing you can do is to cautiously reduce your exposure. Politics among any organizations - be it Profit or Non-profit is inevitable since that is the way the overall design is made. With politics comes groupism and with groupism comes opinions. It is so funny how one groups thinks exactly differs from other group. Each group defends what they say is correct and then comes strategies which are drivers to execute goals for each group. The strategies is looked as politics for an outsider. I used to make fun of leading political parties in Tamil Nadu but now after witnessing whole lot of politics very closely I doubt I will make fun of any political party in future. Based on my personal interest and passion I chose a particular role but unfortunately I had to apply at the last minute due to my personal circumstances; This was looked as political move and frankly I don't expect every single person to know what was going on but the least I expected was at least people who knew me personally should understand and see this as a genuine application. Few people had to say something which was definitely hurting but I have nothing to prove to them.
People have Master's degree, live in US with sophisticated background but when it comes to behavior they are still childish. People sponsor tons and tons of money to temple, volunteer for hours in Temples but see only part of their prayers are answered and if they analyze deeply they will know one of the reason is they have been offering lot of hurt feelings to their near and dear ones with or without conscience. All of us cannot be a Mahatma Gandhi or Mother Teresa since manufacturing of those people have stopped long back. We are living in a rat race environment where people are waiting to push you down, kind and good human beings are considered as incapable ones. If you consider someone as your friend do try to understand him before joining everyone and raising slogans against him..end of the day understanding is what all matters.
