"Mood out"

Scene 1: It's your bday ...you are making sure your car is keeping pace with your oomph level and you drive fast to reach a temple near your place ....Out of the blue you see cop behind you and hands over 150$ fine .....

Scene 2: Its pooja time .....you are about to break coconut so that you can use for Pooja. how many indian stores sell good coconut ? result the coconut is spoilt and you cannot use it ....

Scene 3: You are about to leave for a function ...after all the impediment finally everybody gets into the car .....you drive for a mile and then you see this fat small cat crossing your car ...

Scene 4: You are keyed up as bunch of guests is about to arrive your place .....you are preparing milk dessert for them to taste. much to your dismay since milk is spoilt the dessert taste very bad ....

Well any one or two of the above situations may have happened to you. So why do these happen and make us dull or basically "Mood out" ......well we all know sachin is a wonderful gift we indians have ...but as a captain he didn't enjoy success ....
i remember always when he comes for the after match presentation he says these words
" When things go your way everything seems to go your way ....when things doesn't seem to go your way everything is against you" ......it took me a while to understand what he meant ....

I believe these incidents do happen and may continue to happen ...sometimes it may be our fault and sometimes it may be beyond our control ....so how do we tackle this? what is the remedy when we face situations like this .....???
well I believe we should be mentally prepared ...basically take it in the lighter vein ....this small step can make a big difference when this actually happens.

True friends and just friends ......

"A true friend is one who is with you during troubled times"
How many times we must have heard this Cliche statement but how true it is ......
We are living in a society where everyone is busy busy ...no body has time to value and cherish human relationships ......competition is hectic and people has to run always. At times even jogging is not permitted ...

If someone close to us is suffering from an illness/Fever we either make it a point to call or go and see him on a weekend ....but it doesn't strike us to know what is the extent is he/she suffering.

Knowing the film is bad we make sure we book bulk tickets and go as a gang and enjoy the stupid movie. But knowing its a good thing have we ever make it a point to volunteer the 'n' number of organizations near our community .....

Relationships based on "mutual benefits" is increasingly become more and more and thus overlooking many small things within the wonderful art of human relationships.
We being so busy is naturally because of the fierce competition. If our friend/colleague gets a X-box we tend to get PS3.

Just as T-20 has commercialized everything and thus brought the number of test matches played friendships based on "Mutual benefits" is alarmingly becoming more and more. Personally I believe Human relationships is an "Art" and there is much more in this art and hopefully everyone including me start enjoying it.